Dating, redesigned

Stop chatting.
Start dating.

Meet people through real experiences instead of endless conversations.

JMA

Real people. Real plans.
Launching first in select cities.

DATE IDEASunrise balloon ride

Saturday · 6:30 AM

2 spots
San Diego, CA

Dating apps are built to keep you on the app.
Kourtship is built to get you off it.

From profile to
in person.

Six clear steps. No weeks of small talk. Just a thoughtful plan and someone who wants to show up.

01
Your profile
TC
Travis, 34San Diego · Verified
CoffeeLive music

Create your profile

Simple, fast, and only the details that matter.

02
Build your date
Coffee + a walkCommunal Coffee · North Park
Add experience

Build your date

Choose one to three real experiences.

03
Availability
FRI14SAT15SUN16
Choose a time
5:307:008:30
Publish date

Publish availability

Share the dates and times that work for you.

04
3 requests
AM
Alex, 322.4 mi · 98% reliable
JS
Jordan, 354.1 mi · 96% reliable
KM
Kelly, 311.8 mi · New

Receive requests

See a photo, intro, distance, and reliability.

05
Date confirmed
Saturday at 7:00 PMCommunal Coffee · North Park
DirectionsOpen in maps
Message logistics

Accept one

Choose who you want to meet. Keep chat to logistics.

Choose a date
worth showing up for.

Browse plans built around places to go and things to do. The experience comes first.

LOCAL FAVORITE

Coffee date

Slow mornings, good conversation.

ADVENTURE

Hot air balloon

A new view, together.

LOCAL FAVORITE

Cooking class

Make something memorable.

ADVENTURE

Museum afternoon

Get curious side by side.

LOCAL FAVORITE

Mini golf

A little competition helps.

ADVENTURE

Sunset dinner

Good food. Golden hour.

Trust based on
what actually happened.

Kourtship shows factual reliability metrics, never public opinions. No star ratings. No popularity contest. Just useful context.

AM
Alex, 32North Park · 2.4 mi
98%Reliability
24Verified meetups
0Verified no-shows

Someone has your back.

Share the venue, time, and confirmation with people you trust. Add optional check-in reminders, with privacy fully under your control.

Venue & date details shared
Optional arrival check-in
You control every permission

Turn your venue into
someone's best first date.

Restaurants, coffee shops, and experience providers can create date packages, manage availability, set redemption rules, and receive Stripe payouts.

Become a partner
FEATURED PARTNER

Rooftop tasting for two

Little Italy · San Diego

Thu–Sun6:00–9:30 PM$68 / pair

Clear rules.
No guessing.

Know exactly what happens when you choose a time, enter a chat, confirm a date, or decide not to move forward.

Can multiple people request the same time slot?

Yes. The date creator can review everyone who requested the time and select one person. The listing stays active until both people agree to become Locked In.

When is the date officially confirmed?

The date is locked in only after both people confirm it in the private chat before the countdown ends.

What if someone leaves or time runs out?

The chat closes, the date is not confirmed, and the held slot returns to the marketplace for someone else to choose.

Can two people choose the same slot?

Multiple people may request the same slot, but only one Locked In chat can begin. The slot is held only after both selected people agree.

Can a date creator list more than one time?

Yes. Each available time works independently, so one held slot does not remove the creator’s other times from the marketplace.

What is the chat for?

The private chat is for confirming logistics and deciding whether both people want to lock in the date. It is not an open-ended messaging feature.

View all Kourtship rules

Your next date should be
more than a chat.

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