Create and publish
Members can create date listings with a public location, who pays, and one or more available time slots. Every slot is treated independently.
HOW KOURTSHIP WORKS
One plan.
One clear decision.
Every date starts with a specific time and a focused 48-hour window. Both people know what happens next, from the first request to a confirmed plan.
Request a specific time
Multiple people may request the same available slot. A request does not reserve the time or open a private chat.
Creator selection
The date creator reviews everyone who requested the time and selects one person. The listing stays active until both people agree to become Locked In.
Use the 48-hour chat
Once both people agree, they have up to 48 hours to confirm the location, time, payment details, and whether they want to meet.
Confirm together
Each person confirms separately. The date becomes official only after both confirmations are recorded before the timer expires.
Lock or release the slot
Mutual confirmation locks the slot. If someone leaves or the 48 hours expire, the chat closes and the slot returns to the marketplace.
THE SLOT RULE
One slot can have one active chat.
Every other slot stays available.
FULL RULES
The details,
made simple.
Can a listing have multiple available times?
Yes. A date creator may add multiple times. Holding or confirming one time does not automatically remove the others.
Can multiple people request the same time?
Yes. The date creator can review everyone who requested it and select one person. The private chat begins only after both people agree.
When does a private chat appear?
It opens only after the date creator selects someone and both people agree to become Locked In. Sending or receiving a request never removes the listing from Discover.
Can either person leave?
Yes. Either person can end the chat at any time before mutual confirmation.
What is visible before selecting a date?
You can review the date plan, public location, date creator’s limited profile details, payment arrangement, reliability information, and available times.
Who pays?
The date creator chooses the payment arrangement. They can pay, ask the selected person to pay, split evenly, or have each person cover their own costs.
Who can create dates?
Kourtship members can create date listings. Non-members may browse and request available dates.
What happens after confirmation?
The selected slot leaves the marketplace and the confirmed date is shown to both people. The decision chat is no longer used for ongoing conversation.
Ready for a real plan?
Browse available dates and choose the time that works for you.
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